When She’s Bored

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Holy Week 2013

Holy Week is here. Being filipino means we are very much likely to be more family oriented and somehow strict with our traditions. Thus it is hard for me to stray from doing the necessary things that ought o be done in this time of year. Personally, I myself find it absurd to go vacationing during the Holy Week. Now, don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against the people who do this but I do not like what they are doing. But as different people with different views, we cannot always come to terms with the same mentality. To each his own I say, as long as you don’t hurt people around you with the things you do.

Enough ranting. Same with every year, my family does the Bisita Iglesia. or in english, Church Visit. This is the first chance I have ever gotten to document the events of that day. So here are some pictures.

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Friendships forged in Christ.

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I get a bit crazy with Cheetos. Hahahahha ERMAGHERD CHEERTERS =)) Hi mark

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Hahahha Commercial kamo? Ate oyen, James and Lanzi over 3in1 Coffee.

Bisita Iglesia Pics!

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My sisters are a bit obsessed with these penguin balloons. you can spot them around davao sometimes. Haha

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The three of us grew up with taho every Staruday Morning in our childhoods. Since we seldom get taho nowadays, we never EVER miss the chance to buy taho. Hahah We like it like that.

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And so the End of the 14 Church visits. My mom decided to buy 14 candles to light after finishing the 14th Station.

Holy Week well Spent.

God Bless you friends!

Jesus in me loves you.

Litany of a teenaged female

I could not fathom the degree of my idiocy when it comes to you. Why in the world after all these years, am I still hung up on you?! There have been times that I was pretty sure that I wasn’t anymore. that everything that transpired was just a mere phase in life. something required to get over with at a short span of time.

But how come I still find myself going back? I very well know that I shouldn’t. Harboring illicit feelings as Cassandra Clare would put it. It sickens me to know that I, myself still believe that we were one soul, separated lives, trying to find each other now and maybe we could in the future. Well I say bull crap. I have these inter debate competition with myself. Hahahah!

but yeah, I just hate that I keep coming back to you, knowing that I shouldn’t, knowing that I couldn’t anymore.

Quality time with pops.

Just quality time with my papa. Well actually it was unplanned. I was supposed to be going to LTO to get my student permit buuuut… My tita’s secretary wasnt present so i couldnt do what i had to. Adding to the segue of the plans,my father’s car,bruno, came with a weak battery. So we had to go to kitolite and get a replacement. I wanted to go home but dad didnt want to yet because he had to check out some properties. Anywho,we had a stop iver getting there and when i bought some snacks,this young man,aged maybe about say late 20s was beside me at the cashier. He just wore a white shirt,a dark washed pair of jeans and black nike sneakers. HE WAS TOTES CUTE. Btw,he also had a toddler on his rught arm as an accessory. Bummer. Hahahaha!on the way home,dad and I bought some rye bread in our fave breadstore/resturant/deli center: swiss deli. I managed to sneak in some cookies for my sisters too! >:) actually i just asked permission…im not a bad ass. Hahahahahahaha. Here are some pics i took during the half day.

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Fall outs.

Fall outs.

these are two of the most hideous words I’ve ever had in my vocabulary. A fall out happens whenever two people that have a relationship suddenly drift away from each other. It may be the lack of communication between the two, or some external forces either of the parties can control.

This phenomenon cannot be only exclusive to romantically involved individuals, but also friends and sometimes relatives. It’s public knowledge when romance wanes and the two can’t connect like they used to anymore. But I wanna shed some light on the other relationships that fall out, particularly the friendship.

Friends. say you’ve spent like 3 years knowing each other and in those three years, the two of you have created a bond that would make superglue run for the streets. But then external forces enter, life being life as it is. Things always don’t go the way they used to be. Suddenly, you guys have less time to talk. Then when you guys do, its as if you two are back to square one, the “I-dont-know-you,-let’s-get-to-know-each-other-a-little-better-and-be-friends” stage. One of them thinks that he or she might’ve outgrown each other, or one of them might think that he or she might have been too good to be friends with the other. So that’s that. they just stop communicating and move on with their lives. It’s like they haven’t known each other. One of the two definitely would have a slower coping mechanism though.. getting used to the loneliness… But moving on..

It’s just completely and totally disheartening whenever a fall out happens.. One of them might try a bit harder to avoid the fall out or perhaps, lessen the impact of the fall out through asking them how the other is. But one day, He or she might just get tired and stop salvaging the lost friendship. I swear, the mission is futile. Just stop making a fool out of yourself.