an open letter to the one that makes a douchebag move on innocent girls.
By douchebag move I mean by flirting with her and making her feel special but then leave her the moment the girl that dumped you comes back into your life. Yeah, that move. Sound familiar?
So, both of you are friends, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you could just go back to normal and act as if nothing happened right? No. We’re all human. So if you happened to come into a realization that you’ve done this to a girl,here’s what she might be probably thinking:
1.) When you see each other in the halls,a friendly hello or nod would be appreciated. Anything otherwise(like hugging and smiling at her like she’s the most beautiful thing in the world)will be dealt with accordingly, like have you barbecued just above the fiery pits of hell. Of course she might exaggerate but it simply must be done to get the point across your thick skull.
2.) Don’t talk to her ever again on social media. EVER. it’s just not right you know? it’s like rubbing salt on a freshly cut wound. Maybe in a couple of weeks yeah,okay. And a favorite or a retweet would be tolerable,but outwardly talking to her on social media makes it look like that you still have power to make her knees weak. No, It’s just that you should really just respect her personal space and her pride. After all,we’re all human.
3.) Move on you sonuvabitch. if you can’t really stick with her,might as well get a life. A life away from her. The unnecessary trauma that you give her by constantly coming and going isn’t doing her any good. Be a gent and stay away.
Lastly, if you two have already looked past that, you could be friends again. Just give it ample amount of time. And while you’re at it, Forget the Assholery. It doesn’t suit you.